Modern Dating. Low Relationship IQ (The World View)

I recently came across this article and i want to share some worldly dating advice.

I am then going to break down Godly Dating Advice.

Appearance, Career, Bedroom Skills. Do this keep a guy?

The more we focus on these 3 attributes the more u going to advance in one of many baskets to men.

the problem is that u still in the wrong basket.

You still being considered as a one of many type of woman.

You want to cultivate the specific type of value that will put u in a dffernt basket...not one of many options

In order to do that you will need to tap into a doffernt set of values

High value verses low Value

World Teaching veres God teaching

World Teaching.

The only 2 things that make Highly quality men chase you

1.Your feminite energy

2 .Being High Value , High Status woman

Femine Energy

These 2 traits CANCEL OUT the bad men. Honestly what women wants a situaship ?

FWB? Is that Low value or high value?

When you are very feminine, you have a vulnerability to you that other women do not have, and only high value, masculine men will be willing to take care of a woman who is vulnerable.

You can only be vulnerable if u have no fear of showing up speaking up

vul·ner·abil·ity - the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally:

I am going to make a generalised statement , if u are wounded u will battle to allow others to see u

to let your guard down. because im going to be exposed and i can be hurt

Femine Energy is allowing a man to lead. There can only be 1 leader.

Vulnerability says i trust you that u got me

so i let go of control

your feminine vulnerabilities weed out the weak men who just want to play women around and get what they want, living only for instant gratification.

trying to change a man is a waste of energy . He will start to resent you for trying to make them change.

And being high value, high status, means that you start to weed out the men who won't commit to you, and who only want an easy woman. A woman who settles for easy sex, some 'praise' and easy attention. settle for money and superficial

Reason Number 2 - Women have been habitually masculinized by modern society.

Many women today live a very masculine life. They take on a masculine job, speak in a masculine tone of voice and act and hold themselves as if they are competing with other men.

There’s nothing wrong with this by the way, it’s our birthright to achieve the results we want; just as good and better results as men are.

However… being in the masculine energy will instantly kill the attraction that most men will feel for you.

Why? Because they’ll feel like you’re just like another “guy” friend and there would simply be no polarity.

For attraction to occur between a man and a woman, there has to be the masculine-feminine polarity. And without it, you can still be great friends… but achieving attraction…is impossible.

High value High Status

This is a mindset. its not the car you drive or your cup D lol

The mindset of a high value woman

1. “I determine my value”

If you want to become a high value woman, you need to become the only person who determines your own value.

A high value woman does not allow something or someone outside of herself to set and dictate her worth

2.2. High intention low attachment mindset

high intention low attachment means that you do your absolute best to get what you want but have very low expectations about it.

And this is the secret behind a high value woman’s success in love and life.

he builds little to no expectations and has very little attachment to the outcome of a relationship.

3. No fear of rejection” mindset

4.Take it or leave it mindset

5. I put myself first mindset

6. “I am my primary source of security and happiness” mindset

7.Quality verses Quantity - She values herself enough not to offer herself to just about anybody.

8.8. Abundance, not scarcity mindset

A high value woman does not see the glass half empty, she always sees it half full.

She believes there are enough men out there for her not to be panicking if it does not work out with one of them.

9. Complementarity, not competition mindset

A high value woman is not looking to compete with a man, but rather to complement him.

or with other women